You, ultimately, decide what’s important to you and where you want to spend your time.
Self-improvement isn’t about doing things all at once, it’s about “what you’re doing today”.They have their dream-boards, and their big plans, and they know how amazing it’ll be. You’re going to have written that novel you’ve always dreamed of!They’ve collected book after book, read blog after blog and made plan after plan and they just can’t . You’re going to be so damn suave and charming that your house is going to come with hot and cold running models, all of whom will be begging for the chance to jump on your dick.You know one of the things I hear the most when I’m teaching people about what it takes to get better at dating?“Jesus Christ, there’s no way I can keep track of all of this! ” I’ve lost track of how many people who’ve taken a look at the archives and thrown up their hands and said “fuck this shit.” And to be perfectly fair: I can get that.Anything new in your life means that you’re having to make the choice to give up something else.